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Community contributions from AAR Discord members

Discord used to mostly feel like a gaming thing, but over the last few years it’s turned into one of the most genuine ways artists and fans connect online.

The All-American Rejects Official Discord is probably one of the best examples of that. People don’t just show up when there’s an announcement happening and disappear after. They stay active constantly. One minute it’s music talk, the next it’s jokes, life updates, show photos, or people figuring out travel plans together. After a while, people stopped feeling like random usernames and started becoming actual friends. And eventually that started carrying over into real life too.

At the March 14, 2026 show in Mulvane, Kansas, fans who originally met through Discord ended up spending the weekend together after months of connecting through Discord traveling around different parts of the United States to see the Rejects at Kansas Star Casino.

Photo: imashleemaybe via AAR discord

Now it’s happening throughout the house party run too. Fans in the Discord have been planning meetups and trips for:

• Navasota, Texas — April 30 , 2026
• Spokane, Washington — May 1, 2026
• Medford, Oregon — May 2, 2026
• Alpine, California — May 3, 2026
• Albuquerque, New Mexico — May 6, 2026
• Denver, Colorado — May 7, 2026
• Lawrence, Kansas — May 8, 2026
• Bloomington, Indiana — May 9, 2026
• Coldwater, Michigan — May 13, 2026
• Lancaster, Ohio — May 14, 2026
• New York, New York — May 15, 2026

What started as people talking online has turned into actual friendships built around live music.

That’s the part people outside these communities probably don’t fully see. The Discord isn’t replacing live music culture. If anything, it’s helping bring some of that connection back.

The All-American Rejects also have fans from completely different generations now. Some people grew up with the self-titled album. Others found them during Move Along or Kids in the Street. Newer fans are discovering them now through festivals, clips online, and the excitement around Sandbox ( OUT NOW!). Discord gives all of those people a place to exist together at the same time.

“This is our safe place” -Tera1017 | AAR Discord

Photo: Tera1017 via AAR discord

Some fans in the All-American Rejects Discord have even started referring to the server as “our safe space.” Not because it’s perfect, but because it became somewhere people could consistently show up as themselves.

Tyson Ritter interacting with members of the Discord in person only strengthened that connection even more. It blurred the line between artist and audience in a way that felt surprisingly genuine, and for many fans, it made the community they had built online feel even more real.

Photo: genie_with_a_y via AAR discord

Photo: shztastic via AAR discord

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“Being a part of this Discord has given me a sense of belonging I’ve been missing for far too long. It has given me something to look forward to when I otherwise dread the day ahead. There are fans less than half my age in this group, yet we instantly relate in this unspoken way. It’s really incredible, and I am so very thankful for AAR, our mods, and fellow members that are like family now.” – shztastic | AAR discord

There’s something cool about watching all of this happen in real time. As soon as a new house party location gets announced, people in the Discord immediately start figuring out who’s going, where they’re staying, who’s driving, and how fast they can get there. One week everyone was talking about Navasota and Lawrence, then suddenly people were planning how to get to Spokane or New York. Throughout the entire day, the house party threads are full of photos, updates from line, road trip posts, and people experiencing everything together as it happens.

“Honestly the AAR Discord means a lot to me. I joined nervous because I have bad anxiety and people in my life have been pretty damn cruel to me, but what threw me for a loop was how open arms and accepting everyone was. Even after I fell off the face of the earth for a while and came back, there were new people just as accepting and old friends who talked to me like I never left. It’s the one place I don’t feel annoying.” – Anonymous via AAR discord

Photo: mona lisa via AAR discord

Those behind the discord

A huge amount of appreciation also deserves to go to Gonzo, who originally built the foundation for the community so many people now consider part of their everyday lives. Alongside him is the moderation team that has helped keep this community safe for the users; Firebolt, mona lisa, shauna, kylie, delreyreject, and drownnext2me. Watching something grow from a simple fan server into a community this meaningful has been genuinely special, and a lot of that would not exist without the time, care, and effort of everyone in this online community.

None of this would feel the way it does without The All-American Rejects, The Crewjects putting in their hard work, and their team continuing to lean into the community that formed around the music in the first place. People like Megan Kraemer and Jenni Call helped make a lot of these moments feel even more personal and connected for fans throughout the house party era in and outside of the server.